𝐒𝐭𝐨𝐩 𝐒𝐞𝐞𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐀𝐩𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐯𝐚𝐥 & 𝐒𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐓𝐫𝐮𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟

𝐸𝑣𝑒𝑟 𝑐𝑎𝑢𝑔ℎ𝑡 𝑦𝑜𝑢𝑟𝑠𝑒𝑙𝑓 𝑜𝑣𝑒𝑟𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑛𝑘𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑎 𝑡𝑒𝑥𝑡, 𝑐ℎ𝑎𝑛𝑔𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑦𝑜𝑢𝑟 𝑜𝑝𝑖𝑛𝑖𝑜𝑛 𝑡𝑜 𝑓𝑖𝑡 𝑖𝑛, 𝑜𝑟 𝑓𝑒𝑒𝑙𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑢𝑛𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑦 𝑤ℎ𝑒𝑛 𝑠𝑜𝑚𝑒𝑜𝑛𝑒 𝑑𝑜𝑒𝑠𝑛'𝑡 𝑟𝑒𝑠𝑝𝑜𝑛𝑑?? 𝑆𝑒𝑒𝑘𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑎𝑝𝑝𝑟𝑜𝑣𝑎𝑙 𝑖𝑠 𝑛𝑜𝑟𝑚𝑎𝑙 𝑏𝑢𝑡 𝐷𝑎𝑟𝑙𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑑𝑒𝑝𝑒𝑛𝑑𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑜𝑛 𝑖𝑡?? 𝑚𝑚𝑚 𝑚𝑚𝑚 𝑛𝑜𝑜 !!!!! 𝑇ℎ𝑎𝑡'𝑠 𝑤ℎ𝑒𝑟𝑒 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑙𝑜𝑠𝑒 𝑦𝑜𝑢𝑟𝑠𝑒𝑙𝑓... 🚨 𝘴𝘪𝘨𝘯𝘴 𝘺𝘰𝘶'𝘳𝘦 𝘴𝘵𝘶𝘤𝘬 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘷𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘥𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘱 : ✦ ʏᴏᴜ ʀᴇᴘʟᴀʏ ᴄᴏɴᴠᴇʀsᴀᴛɪᴏɴ ,ᴡᴏɴᴅᴇʀɪɴɢ ɪғ ʏᴏᴜ sᴀɪᴅ ᴛʜᴇ "ʀɪɢʜᴛ" ᴛʜɪɴɢ... ✦ ʏᴏᴜ ʜᴇsɪᴛᴀᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴘᴏsᴛ sᴏᴍᴇᴛʜɪɴɢ ᴡɪᴛʜᴏᴜᴛ ᴄʜᴇᴄᴋɪɴɢ ɪғ ɪᴛ ʟᴏᴏᴋs "ᴄᴏᴏᴏᴏᴏʟ" ✦ ᴀ sᴍᴀʟʟ ɴᴇɢᴀᴛɪᴠᴇ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛ ʀᴜɪɴs ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴡʜᴏʟᴇ ᴍᴏᴏᴅ.... ✦ ʏᴏᴜ ᴄᴏɴsᴛᴀɴᴛʟʏ ɴᴇᴇᴅ ʀᴇᴀssᴜʀᴀɴᴄᴇ ʙᴇғᴏʀᴇ ᴍᴀᴋɪɴɢ ᴅᴇᴄɪsɪᴏɴ.. ✦ sɪʟᴇɴᴄᴇ ғʀᴏᴍ sᴏᴍᴇᴏɴᴇ ғᴇᴇʟs ʟɪᴋᴇ ʀᴇᴊᴇᴄᴛɪᴏɴ.. If this hits home🧐...don’t worry you can break free..... HOW TO BUILD UNSHAKABLE TRUST : 1. ↦ 𝐏𝐀𝐔𝐒𝐄 𝐁𝐄𝐅𝐎𝐑𝐄 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐒𝐄𝐄𝐊 𝐎𝐏𝐈𝐍𝐈𝐎𝐍 Before asking Does this look okay?or Do you think I should? ask yourself first. 2. ↦ 𝐌𝐀𝐊𝐄 𝐒𝐌𝐀𝐋𝐋 𝐃𝐄𝐂𝐈𝐒𝐈𝐎𝐍 𝐀𝐋𝐎𝐍𝐄 Start with little things what to wear, what to eat, what to do... Trust yourself without waiting for approval. 3.↦ 𝐏𝐎𝐒𝐓 𝐖𝐈𝐓𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐓 𝐎𝐕𝐄𝐑 𝐓𝐇𝐈𝐍𝐊𝐈𝐍𝐆 Likes don’t define you. Share what you love, not what you think will get approval. 4. ↦ 𝐁𝐄 𝐎𝐊𝐀𝐘 𝐖𝐈𝐓𝐇 𝐍𝐎𝐓 𝐁𝐄𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐋𝐈𝐊𝐄𝐃 You’re not here to be everyone's favorite. Be authentic the right people will respect that. 5. ↦ 𝐒𝐇𝐈𝐅𝐓 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐏𝐄𝐑𝐒𝐏𝐄𝐂𝐓𝐈𝐕𝐄 Instead of “What if they judge me?” think “What if I love this decision?” Your happiness matters most. 6. ↦ 𝐕𝐀𝐋𝐈𝐃𝐀𝐓𝐄 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑𝐒𝐄𝐋𝐅 𝐃𝐀𝐈𝐋𝐘 Every morning, remind yourself: I don’t need permission to be myself. I already am enough. 7. ↦ 𝐒𝐓𝐎𝐏 𝐄𝐗𝐏𝐋𝐀𝐈𝐍𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑𝐒𝐄𝐋𝐅 A simple “Because I want to” is all the reason you need. The moment you stop chasing approval, you take back your power. Confidence starts the second you realize you don’t need validation to be worthy. ^⁠_⁠^ Have you ever struggled with this???? (Picture - pinterest)

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