๐ โฆ ๐๐ป๐ป๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐๐น๐ผ๐ ๐๐ถ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ฒ๐ โฆ ๐ - The Perfectionism Trap
๐๐ฆ๐บ, ๐ด๐ฐ๐ง๐ต ๐ด๐ฐ๐ถ๐ญโจโฆ ๐๐ข๐ท๐ฆ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ฆ๐ท๐ฆ๐ณ ๐ง๐ฆ๐ญ๐ต ๐ญ๐ช๐ฌ๐ฆ ๐ช๐ตโ๐ด ๐ฆ๐ช๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ ๐๐ซ๐๐ง๐ฎ๐ฉ๐๐๐ฃ๐ ๐ค๐ง ๐ฃ๐ค๐ฉ๐๐๐ฃ๐? ๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐ ๐๐ฉโ๐จ ๐ฃ๐ค๐ฉ ๐ฅ๐๐ง๐๐๐๐ฉ, ๐๐ฉโ๐จ ๐ฅ๐ค๐๐ฃ๐ฉ๐ก๐๐จ๐จ? Thatโs the sneaky trap of ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ณ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป๐ถ๐๐บ. It whispers in your ear, โ๐๐ง ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ค๐ข๐ฏโ๐ต ๐จ๐ช๐ท๐ฆ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ 100%, ๐ธ๐ฉ๐บ ๐ฆ๐ท๐ฆ๐ฏ ๐ต๐ณ๐บ?โ So you waitโฆ for the perfect mood, the perfect timing, the perfect version of yourself. And while you wait, life quietly passes by. ๐ฝ๐ช๐ฉ ๐๐๐ง๐โ๐จ ๐ฌ๐๐๐ฉ ๐ฉ๐๐๐ฎ ๐ฃ๐๐ซ๐๐ง ๐ฉ๐ค๐ก๐ ๐ช๐จ ๐๐ง๐ค๐ฌ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐ช๐ฅโฆ Progress isnโt made in perfection. Itโs made in the messy, incomplete, imperfect middle~ ๐๐๐ง๐๐๐๐ฉ๐๐ค๐ฃ๐๐จ๐ข ๐ฌ๐๐ก๐ก ๐๐๐ซ๐ ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช ๐๐ง๐ค๐ฏ๐๐ฃ ๐๐๐ฉ๐ฌ๐๐๐ฃ ๐ฉ๐ฌ๐ค ๐๐ญ๐ฉ๐ง๐๐ข๐๐จ: 0 ๐ฐ๐ณ 1. ๐๐ญ๐ข๐ค๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ธ๐ฉ๐ช๐ต๐ฆ. ๐๐ช๐ฏ ๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ญ๐ฐ๐ด๐ฆ. But life, darling, is lived in the greys. In the โI tried today even if it wasnโt perfect.โ In the โI showed up, even if I stumbled.โ ๐ฌ๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐๐ต ๐๐ฎ๐ ๐ป๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐บ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ป๐ ๐๐ผ ๐ฏ๐ฒ ๐บ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐๐๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐ฏ๐ ๐ณ๐น๐ฎ๐๐น๐ฒ๐๐ ๐ฑ๐ฎ๐๐. ๐ฌ๐ผ๐ ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ป๐ผ๐ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐บ๐ถ๐๐๐ฎ๐ธ๐ฒ๐. ๐ฌ๐ผ๐ ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ป๐ผ๐ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐๐ป๐ณ๐ถ๐ป๐ถ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐ฝ๐น๐ฎ๐ป๐. ๐ฌ๐ผ๐ ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ป๐ผ๐ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐ฒ๐ถ๐ด๐ต๐ ๐ผ๐ณ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ด๐ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ฐ๐ผ๐๐น๐ฑ๐ปโ๐ ๐๐๐ฎ๐ฟ๐. ๐ฌ๐ผ๐ ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ฒ๐ป๐ผ๐๐ด๐ต ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐๐๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ฒ๐ ๐ถ๐๐, ๐ป๐ผ๐ ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐๐๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ๐บ. ๐๐ณ ๐๐ผ๐โ๐๐ฒ ๐บ๐ฎ๐ฑ๐ฒ ๐ถ๐ ๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฒโฆ ๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฒโ๐ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐น๐ถ๐๐๐น๐ฒ ๐๐ป๐ป๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐๐น๐ผ๐ ๐น๐ถ๐๐ ๐๐ผ ๐ธ๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ฝ ๐ฐ๐น๐ผ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ป ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ณ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป ๐๐ฟ๐ถ๐ฒ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐ฑ๐ถ๐บ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐น๐ถ๐ด๐ต๐.๐โจ - ฬฬ๐ทโข ๐๐๐ฉ โ๐๐ค๐ค๐ ๐๐ฃ๐ค๐ช๐๐โ ๐ฝ๐ ๐๐ฃ๐ค๐ช๐๐ Perfection is a moving target~ uโll never catch it๐พ Instead, learn to celebrate โgood enough.โ Because what matters is progress, not flawlessness~ - ฬฬ๐ทโข ๐พ๐๐ก๐๐๐ง๐๐ฉ๐ ๐๐ข๐๐ก๐ก ๐๐๐ฃ๐จ, ๐ผ๐ก๐ฌ๐๐ฎ๐จ Every tiny step forward counts. Whether itโs 5 minutes of effort or one task crossed off your list.. itโs a win๐โก The magic lives in these little victories. - ฬฬ๐ทโข ๐๐ฉ๐๐ง๐ฉ ๐ฝ๐๐๐ค๐ง๐ ๐๐ค๐ชโ๐ง๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ฎ You donโt need the perfect mood, time, or version of yourself to begin. Start messy. Start unsure. The process itself is what shapes you. - ฬฬ๐ทโข ๐ฟ๐๐ฉ๐๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐ฝ๐ก๐๐๐ ๐ค๐ง ๐๐๐๐ฉ๐ ๐๐๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐ฃ๐ Life isnโt made of extremes. Growth blooms in the in between the grey areas, the ordinary days, the imperfect efforts. Mediocrity isnโt failure; itโs the path to mastery. - ฬฬ๐ทโข ๐๐ค๐๐ช๐จ ๐ค๐ฃ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐๐ญ๐ฅ๐๐ง๐๐๐ฃ๐๐, ๐๐ค๐ฉ ๐ ๐ช๐จ๐ฉ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐๐ช๐ฉ๐๐ค๐ข๐ Stop measuring yourself by the results. Instead, ask yourself: Did I show up today? Learn to value the effort, the lesson, the journey itself. - ฬฬ๐ทโข ๐ฟ๐๐ฉ๐๐๐ ๐๐ค๐ช๐ง ๐๐ค๐ง๐ฉ๐ ๐๐ง๐ค๐ข ๐๐ค๐ช๐ง ๐๐ค๐ง๐ You are not your achievements. Youโre not your productivity. Youโre worthy, even when youโre resting, healing, or figuring things out. - ฬฬ๐ทโข ๐ฝ๐ ๐๐ค๐ช๐ง ๐๐ฌ๐ฃ ๐๐ค๐๐ฉ๐๐จ๐ฉ ๐๐ค๐๐๐ Talk to yourself like you would to your dearest friend~ with kindness, patience, and love. You deserve it. - ฬฬ๐ทโข ๐๐๐ฉ ๐๐ข๐๐ก๐ก, ๐๐๐ฃ๐ฉ๐ก๐ ๐๐ค๐๐ก๐จ Choose Small, doable steps over big, scary ones. ๐ โ ๐ฌ๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐๐ป๐ป๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐๐น๐ผ๐ ๐๐ถ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ ๐ฅ๐ฒ๐บ๐ถ๐ป๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฟโ ๐ช๐ต๐ฒ๐ป ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ณ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป ๐๐ต๐ผ๐๐๐, ๐ฐ๐ต๐ผ๐ผ๐๐ฒ ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ผ๐ด๐ฟ๐ฒ๐๐. ๐ช๐ต๐ฒ๐ป ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐บ๐ถ๐ป๐ฑ ๐๐ฎ๐๐ "๐ฎ๐น๐น ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐ป๐ผ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ด," ๐ฐ๐ต๐ผ๐ผ๐๐ฒ "๐๐ผ๐บ๐ฒ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ด." ๐๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐๐๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐บ๐ฒ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ถ๐ ๐ฎ๐น๐๐ฎ๐๐ ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐๐๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ป ๐ป๐ผ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ด<3
What an lovely post made by a lovely Queen ๐คโจ๐ This post is amazing.๐ฆขu should get an Oscar for those ๐พ First๐ซ
Thank you so much for this eloquent reminder! ๐ค๐๐ Even though my bio says 'Done is better than perfect.' ....I still fall into the perfectionist trap. I think it will take quite a few reminders to rewire my brain ๐
Girl, your posts are so helpful, if u ever feel useless, just know that you have made a big impact in my lifeโฟโ โก๏ผพโฝ๏ผพโกโจ๐ซ๐
I can't tell you in words how much i needed to hear this, thank you so much Miara ๐ธ I am almost crying, After running behind perfection I am finnally accepting myself with all the flaws ๐๐ผ
Loved this ๐ฅโจ tysm sweetie!
Ah , typically cutie post ! From miara โค๏ธ๐ชฟโจ But life, darling, is lived in the greys. In the โI tried today even if it wasnโt perfect.โ In the โI showed up, even if I stumbled.โ ๐คญ๐คI'm obsessed with this line ! Thanks sweetie
Tysm for ur Wonderful post!โจ๏ธ ur posts r always so helpful, beautiful ๐ซjust like u๐๐ซถโจ๏ธ I just love it!!โค๏ธโ๏ธ๐๐
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Thanks for the incredible types. :) ๐
Hello im new here and i liked the posts that i seen โฅ Can u please give me some accounts to follow that u know and love the most ?because im kinda lost!
Wowww<333 Amazing+ perfect + so helpful = Your posts๐คโจ Awesome post as always, tysm queenie๐ซ๐ซ loved๐ฆ
Such a lovely post
OMG!! Gurll this post is going to be my one of the personal favourite ๐โจ I definitely loved it!!! ๐ค๐ค
I wonder if you realize how greatly impactful your most posts are ๐
Noting it all down ๐ Another wonderful post ๐คง๐๐ซถ๐ป