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프로필 이미지profile_imagejungyoora510

My story

Hello, I want to tell you my story and I want your advice, frankly, as strangers. I fell in love when I was fourteen years old, and I was in love with my math teacher. I loved him and felt a strange energy towards him, not with great beauty, but I don’t know what attracted me to him. I started thinking about him even in my dreams. I don’t know what this is, but it makes me uncomfortable, knowing that I don’t have good relationships with people and I don’t like them, even my family. But what attracted me to him is strange, and the biggest problem is that I think he doesn’t love me or have romantic feelings for me. What should I do? I don't know his feelings and I'm trying to forget him but I can't. Can I know your honest opinion 😞😞🫥

좋아요 17댓글 12
  • 프로필 이미지profile_imageAlone soul
    4w

    Dude ... seee I just suggest u to be practical ... U need to think abt his career if u try to confess ur feelings then it will be a very very bad mark on his career ... And u even need to think abt the age gap srsly I think these age gap love ( 10 yrs and more ) is all very impractical and not gonna work

  • 프로필 이미지profile_imagejungyoora510
    4w

    I swear I'm trying but I don't know how? I'm trying to distance myself and distract myself but I can't.

  • 프로필 이미지profile_imageAlone soul
    4w

    And I would rather suggest u to try to explore new stuff and keep urself distracted ...TRY AS MUCH AS U CAN TO FORGET HIM....it's good for u and better for him and both of ur relationship

  • 프로필 이미지profile_imagejungyoora510
    4w

    Thanks for your advice.

  • 프로필 이미지profile_imageinsanity
    4w

    First of all, forget about the relationship with him, it's wrong until you go to school. You say that you have bad relationships with other kids and family, and that you traded all your loved ones for the sake of a teacher? this is fucked up. Secondly, I think that your attraction is caused precisely by the fact that you communicate with few people and communicate poorly with your family. Find yourself new friends and switch your damn brain, don't be a stupid girl. Find new hobbies or courses, think about your life and future. I hope you come to your senses.

  • 프로필 이미지profile_imagejungyoora510
    4w

    It's not that I gave up everything for him, but my family doesn't know that I don't communicate with them much because they don't like me. They prefer my brother, and they always insult and beat me.

  • 프로필 이미지profile_imagejungyoora510
    4w

    I want to forget him, but I can't and I don't know how

  • 프로필 이미지profile_imageinsanity
    4w

    Honey, the story about your parents is sad, I saw your messages. But you still have yourself. You and only you. Love and respect yourself, start thinking about the future so that you can be separate from them (If the problem is not solved).Improve yourself (non-toxic ways), love yourself, please. Start learning something new, maybe some walks and trips, again new acquaintances, even on the Internet (but not the best option for acquaintances. if you have telegram, we can continue the conversation there, I can listen to you and advise you on something.

  • 프로필 이미지profile_imagejungyoora510
    4w

    @Yoorajung8 this is my telegram

  • 프로필 이미지profile_imageAlone soul
    4w

    Dude!!! Firstly u need to understand tht the world is big!! And he's not the only option!! U HAVE 8.2Billion people !!! ..... U have soo many different people and u will find someone better thn him ... It's for ur own future , don't have feelings for him !!! Belive me unrequited love is the worst !!! I am telling this with experience...LEAVE HIM!!

  • 프로필 이미지profile_imagejungyoora510
    4w

    I will try your advice. Do you have habits or hobbies that you like? Give me some of them so I can try them.

  • 프로필 이미지profile_imageLostinafilmscene
    4w

    Bro, I'd Suggest you'd use some techniques that calm us down and use a distraction from thinking that Math is for Nerds. Try meditation and LEAVE HIM!

  • 프로필 이미지profile_imagejungyoora510
    4w

    Let's try. Is it true in your view that mathematics is for nerds?

  • 프로필 이미지profile_imageA better me!
    4w

    No it is for the smart ones too.😝 Not only nerds like it. I absolutely love math but I don't even sit and study for one hour straight.🙂 I didn't want to comment because I don't have the slightest idea of how to solve your problem.😅 Liking math is not the fault, but liking the teacher seems a lot not right to me, in fact very wrong.🙃 For me, I respect my teachers because they impart my knowledge🤓. Apart from that any other feelings are disrespectful to them and their teaching at least for me.😢

  • 프로필 이미지profile_imageA better me!
    4w

    As all say of the others say you don't need distraction😅 , you need confrontation.🗣️ You should reflect what you are doing is not right😨. You should understand that, you might be confused because you are too young,🧐 so just take it as a liking to someone of good personality and don't try anything funny.😐 Personally liking someone in this age is not the right thing even if you like your classmates.🙂 And your teacher?🤨 This is disturbing at least for me.😷 You are not mature enough to even handle yourself, so how do you think you can handle a relationship.😔 Please understand where you are going wrong.🙂 If you like math, then in terms of math: You are using the wrong logic.😵

  • 프로필 이미지profile_imagejungyoora510
    4w

    I try hard but I can't

  • 프로필 이미지profile_imagejungyoora510
    4w

    Let's try harder. Fight.

  • 프로필 이미지profile_image🌻Dee 🧘🏽‍♀️
    4w

    You're just young and immature. Your hormones are starting to fluctuate as your body changes, which can lead to 'feelings' that aren't real.... I had crushes on a few men when I was young. It feels like its your whole world at the time, but it's not, you WILL grow up, your feelings WILL change. Find something to do with yourself....write a journal, read more books, watch TV shows, learn a new craft, anything to distract yourself. You will get over him. I promise this will happen.

  • 프로필 이미지profile_imagejungyoora510
    4w

    Thank you very much for your tips I will try 💕🙏🏻

  • 프로필 이미지profile_image🌻Dee 🧘🏽‍♀️
    4w

    You can get through this, just like so many humans have to 😊 hormones are necessary but they can really drive you crazy!! 😂

  • 프로필 이미지profile_imagejungyoora510
    4w

    And they really drive me crazy 🧦

  • 프로필 이미지profile_image🌻Dee 🧘🏽‍♀️
    4w

    You're not alone 💖🤗